, and many other relationship experts, playful bantering or gentle flirting with someone outside of your marriage is harmless if proper boundaries remain intact.
This doesn’t mean that you can make her feel uncomfortable and sick in her guts, therefore, make sure that she is equally enjoying these flirty games that you are playing with her.
Have fun while you can, there is a lot of time left for all the serious talks! All this requires is your free time, your phone, and your wild imagination.
Text a line to your girlfriend such as, “it was a winter evening and she was sitting alone at a bar”, and let her pick it up from there and give you the next cue.
This way the two of you can create an erotic story and have fun for as long as you like, may be the whole night!
What would be considered a violation in one marriage might be perfectly acceptable for another couple.