I'm a glass-half-full optimist, who is easy going and looks 10 years younger than I am." I think that if we can all agree to clean up our profiles then maybe, just maybe, we can find some common ground and get back to the business of falling in love (or at least having fun trying).
One dating expert said “If you are a black woman on and you’re not going to initiate contact then you are not going to date.
That’s just the reality.”To get any response at all, black women have to reach out roughly 1.5 times the amount of any other group — and they are still the group that’s the least responded to.
Stick to flirting and leave getting to know you type conversation for when the two of you are together.
Once you’ve established some rapport, suggest that the two of you get together some time to hang out.
Before we get into the meat of the topic, we should tell you that skipping out on online dating is one of the biggest mistakes a man can make. So what’s the best way to start a conversation with a girl online without using online dating sites?