Conveying one’s feelings is tough in any language, let alone if you have to overcome language barriers to achieve it.
However, try not to think about it too much – due to the passive and roundabout nature of Japanese guys, girls are often overjoyed when they are approached with a direct “I love you” confession.
Things that they fear a foreign woman would not agree to do (e.g.
And at the same time there’s only a very tiny number of foreign (read: non-Asian) women with Japanese men next to them. Maybe that’s a secret we’ll never quite get, but there are many theories!
A lot of Japanese women want a guy that tells them several times a day how much he loves them.
Recently, I interviewed a lot of people for my book who had dated or married Japanese women. ‘All right, let’s leave,’ Andre said, and they left.
Let me share with you some of the interesting stuff they told me about Japanese women! Andre, a Jamaican man, went on a trip with his Japanese girlfriend. This exchange seemed innocent enough to Andre, until a few months later when their relationship got tense. Andre, the aforementioned Jamaican guy, also realised that he tended to have bad experiences with girls he met in bars.
Explain to her since you have a different background, you may act differently than she may expect but want to make sure it is not taken ill, because you don’t mean that. It depends on the woman but compared to Westerners, Japanese woman will take time until they really open up.