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Before, I had only online interactions that grew out of the dark corners of vanilla dating sites; with few public kink events to offer indication of anyone’s sociability or reputation, there was a tepid air of distrust sewn through every online and offline interaction I had.
On moving to San Francisco, I was relieved to live and date in a place where I could find an extensive BDSM community.
At first, I received only hand-written letters, but these are becoming less common, which is a shame, as you learn so much from a person's writing.
Some have elegant script while others become more frenetic as the fantasies reach a crescendo.
Part II will address the lesser known Cuckoldress and Hot Wife.