As harsh as it sounds, I haven't really cared too much about anyone in that time (although there were 2 notable exceptions) and so when feelings aren't involved it's easier to be nonchalant about dating.
However, I've realised that there are five definite distinct phases of dating: Phase 1: "I'm never going to date again.
This article will explain the phases and journey a man undergoes before falling in love with a woman. This initial stage is all about instant physical attraction.
Are you trying really hard not to ruffle his “commitment feathers” by asking him how he feels about you?
Are you, instead, trying your best to show him what a great catch you are by being the sweet, fun-time, easy-breezy gal on the outside (even if you are crumbling with worry and insecurity on this inside)?
Some women may fall in love during the first conversation, but sadly, in the beginning stages, men are only attracted to a woman's physical appearance.
Don't be fooled by the idea of a ‘physical appearance.'It does not include the whole package.
We all, men and women alike, might feel the same emotions when it comes to love, but the journey to finding love is an experience differentiated by gender.