During the first few dates with a new guy, your vibe is typically pretty laid-back and easygoing.
You want to explore the possibilities with him and see what he’s all about.
You stop enjoying the relationship for what it is and start craving validation and confirmation that it’s “the real deal.” And there’s only one thing that manifests from that place… QUIZ: Are You Accidentally Destroying Your Love Life?
These days, people are quick to throw the concept of neediness around without actually looking at what it is.
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