Granted, it wasn't a five-year-plan, as some couples do, but our two-year-plan made sense for us. While I worked toward our ultimate goal, he decided to take a back seat.
Instead of working more, both at his current (part-time, mind you) job and on his music, he sort of He'd never been an exceptionally ambitious person, but believing I had enough ambition for both of us, I let it slide at first.
Sure, we’d had our issues, but once upon a time, we were in perfect sync and truly happy, and nothing like the situation on our hands now. So, I panicked and went on a single handed — through threats, through begging, through desperate, (and now embarrassing) behavior.
Maybe you realize that moving from one household to two Whatever the reason, it is my belief it CAN be done. (I highly recommend both.) Please don’t take my advice as a replacement for your own.
Within this article, I will tell you how I happened to do this (although some of it was just really dumb luck, but I finally wised up and hopefully, it doesn’t need to take you that long, nor do you need to be as as I was.) However, I do need to state, that before we go further, that I’m not a therapist or an expert.
He had no interest in bettering himself, his life, or sticking to the promises he'd originally made.
I’ll assume if you are reading this, you already know or suspect that you really do want to save your marriage. I don’t know your situation and can’t make any guarantees, but I hope that something here is helpful.
We love making each other happy, and never try to change who the other person is," she says.