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I just feel like such a loser hanging out at the mall or grocery store trying to pickup girls... How about getting on with your life and you just stop actively looking for a girlfriend for a few months?
Relax and just have a good time with your male buddies for now. I'll message people I find interesting, I can see them looking at my profile and reading about me, but they don't contact me.
You can't even hear them talk because of the loud music. i try to get up from the cube and just walk around sometimes and see if i see someone in the hall... Otherwise, it just seems like you are trying way too hard to find someone to date.
University, maybe this is my last hope, to go back to school and find a girl in one of my classes, a smart girl, someone i can discuss something with, without having to use a pickup line... Normally when your looking for one you meet all the wrong ones but when your not that's when you realize WHY MAYBE I LIKE HER then POOF it happens because you DIDNT EXPECT IT LET THE UNEXPECTED HAPPEN. And those desperation vibes are keeping the women away.
And it usually comes up instantly after telling someone you are single.