Typically, you notice someone before you speak to him or her.
The struggle for guys is in the desire to date someone who is attractive, yet respectable when it comes to looks.
“It’s weird,” he said contemplatively, staring into a sea of models.
“Lately, in order to want to sleep with someone, I actually have to them as a person.” He said this as if it were a mind-blowing revelation.
Being able to pull off a classy look is a good thing, but there can be some instances when too much class turns off a man.
Every woman I know in San Francisco says the same thing.“He has to be this much taller and make this much more money. No date is dinged for being 5’5” or pursuing a career as a yogini.”Charles was right.
Or perhaps we become more acutely aware of the impermanence of beauty after experiencing our own signs of aging?