Dating nice men

Suzanne Venker is known for her provocative views on men, women, work & family.

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When it comes to meeting new women on the internet, too many men behave like little wolves and piggies, seeking only to find the super-thin babe with long legs, a dazzling smile and extremely large attributes that'll make Dolly Parton pea-green with envy.

At the end of the day, most men just want a woman who’s nice. Most women do want a man who’s kind, but that’s not the same as nice. I think I’m pretty nice, but that isn’t the first word one would think of to describe me. But acting nice and being nice are two different things.

When it came to dating in New York as a 30-something executive in private equity, Dan Rochkind had no problem snagging the city’s most beautiful women.

“I could have [anyone] I wanted,” says Rochkind, now 40 and an Upper East Sider with a muscular build and a full head of hair.

As a result, my so-called casual relationships go on a lot longer than most people’s so-called committed ones.