One to one skype sex chat


Flash-forward to few weeks later, when we were on Skype, saying and doing things we’d only done in person.

This was my first experience with Skype sex and I had a feeling that I was boldly going where I never had. Although many of us aren’t strangers to whispering sexy nothings into the phone, we’re now living in the day and age where we can not only hear the object of our lust, we can see them too.

I myself have been the moderator for online relationship forums starting back with People Link and Qlink (systems into which you had to dial in, before there was ubiquitous Internet), and even back then, the question came up quite regularly.

Here’s the thing: ask just about anyone which bothers them more – the idea of their spouse or mate being physical with someone, or the idea of their spouse or mate becoming emotionally involved with someone, and the vast majority of them will say that the latter is far worse.

Many can forgive, for example, a one night stand sort of fling, where it’s just meaningless sex, but few can as easily brush off an emotional involvement with another woman or man.

Emotional involvements take more than time away from the marriage; emotional involvements take attention away from the marriage.

I see long distance sex as the replacement for real sex while distance separates us from our bellowed girlfriends.