As long as you're careful about safety, you can have fun checking out a few chats.
Not all Christian chat rooms are set up for dating.
Any contact with the person becomes as potent as a drug addiction.
Although I know he does actually play with girls/women.
He is generally up all night long gaming and in 'party chat' with headphones while I am sleeping.
(Even though our love life is negatively impacted.) So its not the gaming I have a problem with, it is the online chatting during gameplay that I am not comfortable with.
In his particular favorite game, members join as either sex and he plays with both sexes so you can never tell for sure who exactly he is playing with.
Volunteering at a Christian charity is a good bet, too.