It doesn’t mean we’re bad people or even bad partners; it just means online dating isn’t the right way for people like us to find partners who are for us. You’d think online dating would be a perfect way for introverts to meet new people, but it isn’t.
That’s because the only “introverted” part of online dating is the initial contact.
We all go onto these sites with a vision of what our ideal partner will be, and when we find an online profile that appears to meet our pre-set criteria, all we’re really doing is putting a face on this fantasy partner we’ve created in our heads.
Oddly enough, being completely void of any new women in my life for two full years was amazing. Ninety-eight percent of my friends are married and incredibly boring.
They prefer insightful and meaningful conversations over small talk.