99% of the single foreign men i met , who aren't seeking a long term relationship do not manipulate women. They would always reply "what does it matter if I am married". Chinese Society is a lot of things but empathetic certainly isn't one of them. There are many Chinese women that arent "innocent", and are quite curious to be with non-chinese/ non-asian.
they simple have a "pay as you go" gf or they frequent bar girls or massage parlors or they find a nice "leftover" woman . (Ill go out on a limb and say its a word of mouth phenomena occurring here and it generally speaks of foreigners being better in bed, generally speaking of course...) Apr 06, 2013 being honest Shanghai is much more open than the U. and after 2 years here I witness Chinese men sleeping around, cheating, secretly running into massage places and even go in as groups. Chinese men are cowardly,not honest and maybe better liars, foreign men are mostly honest and will say what they have done and are doing.
I entered Linda's classroom, saw her, and immediately felt some interesting and happy emotions. She said she could, and agreed to meet outside work. In American culture, starting to date someone is not a big, important decision, but I think in Chinese culture it is. We have gotten into big disagreements over me not showing emotional support for Linda in the way she wants, and bad feelings can get out of control when there isn't enough understanding or communication.
We sometimes exchanged non-romantic texts in the evening. She didn't immediately answer, but said she would tell me the next day. Well, she said 'yes,' and so we spent lots of time together, and fell in love. We had a Chinese style wedding in Linda's hometown. We have survived it by apologizing later and just loving each other and wanting to stay together.
Take the differences between American dating and Chinese dating for example.