Twenty something dating a forty something


So the only way you really can empathize is to know their side of the story.

Men and women are different in many ways, but we’re more the same than you may think. We all have dating disappointments and horror stories.

Bob, a 41-year-old advertising executive, knows this frustration.

So any busty blondes reading this can contact me through the Website. After the initial experimental stage where he dates a lot of people, he looks for a woman to fill certain roles, like wife and mother. At 39, Paul, a computer consultant, is no longer looking to date, but to mate.

But I also want a woman who's sensitive because, hey, I got feelings." 30: STABILITY—AND SANITY Jim, a comic, recalls, "When I was seven I wanted a girl who could make a good sand castle. "I want someone who looks like a good baby-maker, not an anorexic who's afraid to put a cookie in her mouth." 40: COMPANIONSHIP Men in this age range still think a roll in the hay is nice, but now they're more eager for substance. If you're up for the job, the 40s man may be yours for the taking.

People ask me all the time whether I offer dating and relationship coaching for single men. But I tell them that I help men by helping women who are dating after 40. ) One of the most transformational ways I support women is by helping you better understand GROWNUP men.

Just like women, the men you’re dating have lived and learned.

Since my long-term relationship with the father of my children ended more than three years ago, I had tried various other dating websites (ones I paid for) and been on a handful of dates, but found them all soul-destroying in their own way.