So it's not easy, but if it's really important to both of you, and both of you work at it, it can have a good outcome.
Question from Lois: What about trips that are only for singles?
Dating is an intentional pursuit of marriage, not casual preparation for it.
Unfortunately, many of us are being told we must date early and often if we ever want to be ready for marriage.
But the end of that dream, as painful as it is, doesn't have to prevent you from dreaming again. Understand that you're part of a sisterhood of other women who have also experienced the tragedy of divorce in their lives.