A guy who won’t commit doesn’t want to be included in your life plans.
Here are some potential reasons why the guy you’re dating won’t kiss a gal or escalate the relationship after she gives him the green light by kissing him first: He likes you and is probably sexually attracted to you, but he can’t see himself puttin’ in work on you that would make you appreciate him more and take your relationship in a positive direction rather than a negative direction.
There are lots of reasons a guy might be scared of / intimidated by a chick.
I don’t mean because she weighs 25 pounds more than he does or that she knows Jiu-Jitsu.
I’m talking about a lack of confidence that whatever he’s planning to do to her isn’t going to match up to what someone else has already done to her.
“But most often if you’re dating a girl, shelling out cash on three or four dates, and there’s still no physical contact, then I’d say you’re a very good friend that buys her meals and you won’t be anything more.” Kinrys says as long as she keeps accepting dates, replying to contact, and making an effort and progressing physically with you, then she’s into you and you can work together to figure out your sexual boundaries.