I do want a man to pursue me, but when he does, I will be increasingly receptive to him, and once a relationship has been established, I won’t mind taking the initiative when appropriate.
(Yes, men are advised to bait, hook, and then ignore a woman, to get her to do the chasing).
BTW, I am not a “rules” girl, I read that book, and feel dumber for having read it.
He wrote a book, and writes for several internet columns offering dating advice to men.
The System as he calls it guarantees love to any man while avoiding potential heart break and blunders that most men have to learn the hard way, if they ever learn at all.
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