Julie, 50, from Denver, thought she'd be able to handle her divorce.
"I'm a strong person, I own my own business and I'm a professional speaker," she says.
However, a divorced man can’t just erase his ex-wife from his memory and his life.
You’ll have to be able to accept the fact that his wife will always be part of his life.
You are no longer a “we” with emotional ties, exclusive commitments and promises. You call your girlfriend who has been receiving ongoing reports since you first connected with him online.